We’ve all heard the story of Cinderella and how her evil stepsisters tried to force their feet into the glass slipper. They wanted the shoe to fit so badly that they were willing to mutilate their own feet just for a chance to marry the prince.
This attempt to force something that clearly doesn’t belong is an apt metaphor for a phenomenon I call “Cinderella Stepsister Syndrome” or CSS. This is when an individual or group pushes an ideology, belief system, or agenda despite obvious evidence that it’s a poor fit for the circumstances. They try to twist facts and logic to align with their predetermined narrative rather than objectively evaluating the situation at hand.
We see CSS happening around us all the time. Politicians clinging to failed policies. Anti-science movements denying evidence. Hate groups justifying prejudice. CSS can also occur on an individual level when people rationalize bad habits, toxic relationships, or counterproductive behaviors because they are so invested in a particular worldview.
The dangers of CSS are twofold. First, it can cause direct harm when agendas are forcibly applied where they don’t belong. Second, it represents a warped relationship with reality. Refusing to see the obvious or clinging to delusions, no matter how comforting, is a path toward mental decline.
So how can we avoid falling into this trap? The key is maintaining intellectual humility. Be willing to admit when something isn’t working. Open yourself to facts that don’t fit your narrative. Actively seek out different perspectives. Don’t be afraid to evolve your views.
The stepsisters could have saved themselves a lot of pain if they simply accepted that the shoe did not fit. For the health of our minds and society, we must do the same. The truth will always come out in the end. When something is clearly a bad fit, let it go. Don’t be like Cinderella’s stepsisters jamming your foot into a glass slipper. Avoid CSS at all costs.
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